2013-09-11

FUBAR



 Today I was supposed to post for Haunted Humpdays,
the great Halloween Countdown over at Marfi at Incipient Wings.
But the Universe had other plans. FUBAR plans.

After more than 2 years together, 9 months of those spent waiting
for a reply from Migrations, Cinnamon Man's application has been rejected.
He now has three weeks to either appeal or to leave the country.

We are intent on appealing, but we have no idea what our chances are.
Also, that process can take another 6 months to a year, and at some point
my man is going to run out of savings. Being a small business owner,
of a store that barely makes ends meet, I have no way of supporting him.

Magaly at Pagan Culture gave me and 5 others a Lovely Blog Award,
with the request that we share something lovely and heartwarming.
Thank you sweet Magaly, but I have nothing of the sort to share.

What I will share is just a pretty picture.
That's about all I can muster up at the moment.









 




23 kommentarer:

  1. Oh no! That's awful news and so unfair.
    My heart goes out to you both.
    All you can do is keep appealing.
    Good luck x


    SvaraRadera
  2. it seems impossible, but keep positive!
    my husband is from England and we went through a tough time for a while with immigrations too.
    they were many times all felt hopeless, but it worked out.
    sending you positive thoughts my friend!!!!

    SvaraRadera
  3. So sorry to hear about this set back, hope you get better news soon. HUGS!

    SvaraRadera
  4. This week just isn't looking great for anyone, is it? Let's hope it's just the moon in a funny quadrant or something...

    SvaraRadera
  5. This is terrible. I'm proud of you for even sharing the pretty picture. I hope something goes well with the appeal. Maybe something will come up before the time is done. I hope, I hope, I hope.

    SvaraRadera
  6. Oh, I'm so absolutely sorry to hear this! 2013 has been such a crappy year in many ways. So many people dealing with challenges and sadness. I wish you the very best and hope this horrible situation gets resolved. ❤

    SvaraRadera
  7. Surely that having such news is just heart breaking.. but you still managed to make a post , and I pray for you so that the things work out for your both. Take care!

    SvaraRadera
  8. I'm very sorry to hear your news.
    I will hope for the very best for your appeal, I cannot even fathom what you're feeling :(

    SvaraRadera
  9. Oh no! Such rotten news. Truly hope the appeal goes your way!!

    SvaraRadera
  10. That's terrible, heart-breaking news. I'm going to keep all of my fingers and toes crossed that something wonderful comes up to stop this from happening, because dammit love is important and special and deserves to not have bad things happen to it. I hope the appeal goes through smoothly and quickly and that good things happen for you two very, very soon!

    SvaraRadera
  11. I keep my fingers crossed for you that this horrible situation works out for you!

    SvaraRadera
  12. HUgs, sending you comfort and support, wishing the best and hope things work out!My thoughts are with you.
    Victoria

    SvaraRadera
  13. Oh honey, there could be no greater fubar than this. I am so sorry and hope an appeal will come through. Warmest hugs, Mina

    SvaraRadera
  14. Oh honey, there could be no greater fubar than this. I am so sorry and hope an appeal will come through. Warmest hugs, Mina

    SvaraRadera
  15. Men blä :( jag är så ledsen för eran skull, jag hoppas verkligen att det kommer lösa sig på något vis.

    SvaraRadera
  16. FUBAR doesn't even begin to cover it, Ms. Misantropia. :o(

    My thought is that Immigrations probably denies everyone and if you appeal, THEN they think you're really serious and deserving. I don't know why I think that - it's not based on facts or anything. But I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you both.

    SvaraRadera
  17. I know I already commented once, but I wanted to come back to say that I have you both in my thoughts. (((Hugs))

    SvaraRadera
  18. Fan vad ledsen jag blir för er skull :'(. Ja håll ut, försök. Det är verkligen skit att han inte får ta ett jobb. Många många kramar till er båda

    SvaraRadera
  19. Oh honey! :( I'm just catching up on my blogs and I read this horrible news. Sending you lots and lots of love and support. MUAH!

    SvaraRadera
  20. Please forgive me for being late to read and comment. I'm so sad about your problem. It's very strange they rejected him. Are you legally married? Would that change things? Wishing you a happy ever after - you deserve it.

    SvaraRadera
  21. Do not give up. Look at this as a setback.
    Demand to know EXACTLY why he was rejected. What needs to be done, changed, etc.
    Ask them if there are departments designed to help people who are rejected.
    Research legal options as you go through the appeal. Make noise, never stop questioning and asking for help. Most of it will be a dead end or a let down, but tredge through the mud to get to the good stuff, the useful information. I wish I had specific answers or help but all I can say is don't give up.

    It seems the people who try to do things the right way are the ones who suffer.

    SvaraRadera
  22. Oh no! How frustrating and disheartening. Appeal it my dear and know that you have many people's energy pushing for you. Don't give up.

    SvaraRadera
  23. Oh no, I'm so sorry for you both. Hopefully the appeal will work, until then I'm keeping my fingers crossed and wishing you all the luck in the World! xxxx

    SvaraRadera

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